What makes you love her or him?


you can feel your love when you are in it. Its just like orgasm you can only feel it .it becomes immensely difficult when is being asked to be defined.At the moment you become out of love you become a stranger to it. Those past feelings remain baseless but the bond thread is still in you . The success depends upon you . How do you stitch it and how your stiching is ?

If I speak open do not call me arrogant ! How many so called existing love could be called love in its relevent criteria? May be none of those! An example would make it more clearer I hope;

love is like sunlight when it is there it is there and when it not it is no more! The light is the core source of our existence. Though, we know that there will be a timely break of disappearence of it . We remain with the hope of embracing it more refreshingly in the very next morning.

I think there are three main categories of love. physical , mental and spiritual. Though these are interlinked it can not be substituted each other.where as, your love to your mother,lover and God is clearly different in each its levels.

The secret still remains a public mystery its just how you use it.

Finally let me ask you , why do you fail in love?

Its because your love has become materialized. You have become something else. You are not you because of being scared to be you. You are trying to be as others wanted you to be in. Why do you want to bear others mask on your precious face. Love your beloved ones as you like . Do not love them as if it is your responsibility. Choose the right partner, the great saying is more significant here '' beauty lies in beholder's eyes. Let your imagination and expectaion decide and not some one else around. I hope that you shall be able to choose , live in your your Minded decisions. Love do not die . Once if it die it reincarnates somewhere else

Do not try to be moulded it others' crucible.

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